You are dealing with an addiction not a person. This is more than just infidelity and as Maybell says it is major abuse. You may never know about the drama going on. All sounds like hokum to me. lumps can also be cysts too, all sorts of things. I would not wish cancer on anyone not even an OW, but running this with babies is deeply deeply worrying.
I second Maybell, this is abusive by AH (addicted H).
AHW I too deal with an addicted STBXH and it is very difficult to know truth from lies. They may also do anything to stay in addiction. When H is stressed he will relieve that stress by returning to pattern and his addiction. This is the reality he can not but cheat on OW with OW2 etc. there will always be POWs.
You and the twins deserve better.
I just wished I could reach out a give you a really big hug.
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 05/05/1506:36 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
