I don't have time to go back and Quick Quote specific examples but if you go back over the last page or two, two things pop out to me:
1. You seem to be very fact based and black and white in dealing with things.
2. You seem to have a need to always be right.
Nothing wrong with these and they probably serve you well in your profession. What people are trying to point out to you is that these traits can make it very difficult for someone, particularly women, to have an intimate relationship with you.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.