Dazed and Confused

[Archer1]

Sandi! Thanks for offering your assistance.

My wife and I are both 30 (her birthday is actually next month, but for the sake of argument she's 30).

She grew up with both of her parents and two sisters. She moved to the states when she was 3 and has lived here ever since. All of her family still live in another country except for one of her 2 sisters and her parents. Her parents are together but I know they've had a rough marriage. Her mother was an alcoholic and she tried to commit suicide. Both of her sisters, the one here in the states and the one in another country have been married and divorced.

They are not a very religious family at all.

Her grandma (98 years old) passed away a few weeks ago in her home country. Also, her mother has been staying there for the past 6 months and has decided she's going to stay for good. She informed her husband that he needs to sell the house and move home with her ASAP.

They were never a close family. No I love yous were ever said etc.

I've checked out your newcomer LBH thread and read through almost every page. It's helped out a lot, but I'm still not sure on what my next step is.

Thank you for taking the time to help a stranger out.

-J