Thanks, Bob. Just knowing someone read through my story means a lot. I've read through a lot of yours as well. Glad you're still hanging in there!
You're welcome. My pleasure. That is why we are all here.
I see that Sandi posted and had a very keen observation. My wife has MS, accused me of being smothering (I did get over-protective) and she simply walked away. She told me these things after she filed for D 6 months ago. Weeks ago, she mentioned she "wants her life back and doesn't want to have to answer to anyone/worry about other people's issues." Sort of sounds like your wife but I am positive there was no OM. My wife went to stay with her Mom 3 1/2 hrs away. I think what really got to my W was that her Dad passed away in Dec 2013. So, I think Sandi is on to something here:
"Has something major happened recently to a family member, a friend, or something that could have influenced her into thinking she had to live as though this might be her last day?"
I wish you well.
Bob
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Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
