So sorry to read your story Justin.. I do think you were right in asking her to leave though. Maybe that can get her to wake up.
But then is the tricky part, I think, that even if she would come back, can you trust her? I think it can be rebuilt but then I think transparency is the key..
All my fingers crossed for you, keep venting and I'm sure you'll get great advice from the more experienced busters than I.
M: 44 H: 43 ILYBNILWY: 7/4-15 Decided to try to reconnect. "This doesn't work, I have no feelings": 20/4-15 Scheduled "talk" :9/5-15 It's over: 9/5