Wayward Wife and the Way of LRT Pt. 2

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I think you should try to stick to the plan of being upbeat and friendly. As far as I know from others DB much more experienced than me, just validate her feelings and don't talk of yours..

But I could be wrong.. Sure you'll get more advice before long!

If she hands you D papers, I think you should take them without much fuss but maybe just say that you understand how hard for her to do this, and not much else.. I've gotten the advice to to think things through before I meet my STBX and that is what I'll do. I'm going to write down some things I think he's going to say, and how I'll reply if he does.
Maybe that could be something for you to try too..

Sorry if I'm harping on with stuff you already know, haven't read much of your stitch yet..

All my best, and good luck!

Thanks for the advice! I will definitely sit down and try to work through some scenarios. With the kids going to be there, I will definitely encourage W to keep D talk limited. I will stay calm, confident, and cordial.