So we spoke - it was cordial but brief about children and summer plans.

She mentioned that her mediators will get with my lawyer to speed up this process. I am not even sure that is possible but her intent was to confirm to me she is full steam ahead with the D. She apparently like to confirm this with me every time we talk, she wants the D, she wants the D, she wants the D. It's like her mantra.

Mostly I am non reactive, I just say OK, but the ball is in her court. Since she doesn't have a lawyer, I am not sure what she can do.

As most of you know, my plan was to work on me which I have been doing, stall this D out as long as possible, hope her A with the circus freak burns out and maybe we can start with marriage counseling if she is willing.

I don't know - it feels not good at this point but I continue to DB and "act as if."


Was made a better person by DB'ers