Update on my situation. I am setting up meetings for a few different attorneys. I want someone that I am comfortable with. They all make me nervous.
I had a good weekend! Started out with me calling my WW out on her B.S. She started talking about her trip and what she needed to take and what she was going to leave for when she goes back and forth. I told her, " let's just stop all the B.S.! You are going out there to see if you want to live on your own or maybe you have a guy. Call it what it is! I told her, you want to go, there is the door. We will make arrangements with the kids. I am done playing games. I have done things in our marriage that I need to work on, but if you think you will be happier with someone else, have it at." Than I walked outside and started working in the yard. It's amazing how much work you can do when you're pissed off. I kept my cool while talking to her and let out my anger on the lawn! I was a mowing fool.
Anyway, she seemed different all weekend. We got along well. I did my thing and helped get stuff set up for the yard sale.
Sunday we went shooting. That was fun! Kids had a good time! Than I had a good talk with S19. We had some talks about his job and other issues. I think he is experimenting with drugs. He opened up to me pretty good. He asked me if his mom was a phone sex operator. Said he heard her one night. Told me he was going to ask her himself, but got a knot in his gut everytime he thought about talking about it. I told him the truth. He was kinda upset and can see why I would be upset with it.
So I am just plugging along, working on myself and spending time with my kids and talking to lawyers.
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Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
He opened up to me pretty good. He asked me if his mom was a phone sex operator. Said he heard her one night. Told me he was going to ask her himself, but got a knot in his gut everytime he thought about talking about it. I told him the truth. He was kinda upset and can see why I would be upset with it. 