I have updated my profile and even posted my link to my homepage if anyone is curious to who I am..
So the big "talk" that he requested last week, is on this upcoming Saturday. He has said that it doesn't feel the same for him any more, he's not committed to saving our R, he doesn't know why he's feeling the way he does "feelings just change, don't they" and he doesn't miss me when we have less contact.
I have a 10 K race to run first and after that I'm going to his place for a shower, and then I guess it's talk-time. I hope that I'll be upbeat after the race, so that I can have good energy going in.
I have had several good posts on my last tread as to handle this, and I have taken them to heart. What I'm scared about is not succeeding in STFU and starting to beg, or try to persuade.
Since he's said that he feels that his feelings never matter (one thing he has told me was a factor in previous R) and that he feels like I'm trying to persuade him, I'm going to work really hard on the validation tips posted by Wonka.
If any of you have had one of these "talks", either that went well or not so well, I appreciate any insight you can give me..
I'm more or less a nut case at the moment, as you will soon discover if you come back here.. I will try my best to keep emotions at bay!
All my best to you all!
M: 44 H: 43 ILYBNILWY: 7/4-15 Decided to try to reconnect. "This doesn't work, I have no feelings": 20/4-15 Scheduled "talk" :9/5-15 It's over: 9/5
