I am so sorry to hear that your WW is spewing and inflicting damage to you and your kids. Yep. That is classic MLC behavior. Nothing is their fault although they set all of it in motion.
Just remember that none of this has to do with you, it's all her issue (s) so the best strategy is to just ignore as much as you can and don't take it personally. The less reactive you are to her nonsense, the better.
Continue to be the best Mom you can, and yes, God will see you and your children through this dark time, with or without your W.
