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[Maybell]

I'm sorry I missed seeing last night's update till just now.

LET GO. He is so playing you it makes me mad to see how he's abusing you.

You will not believe how light your life can feel without him BLATANTLY ABUSING YOU. Do it so your kids -- especially your daughter -- can see how strong you are. Do it for them, so they don't think this is normal and OK. I can't believe he's seriously asking you all these things as though this is normal.

For what it's worth, we all go through this. But there has to be an end to it. How would you feel if you got to be 85 and you looked back on your life and this is what your life had been like... and STAYED like? Because you know he's not going to change. Why would you want this to be your one and only experience of life? Of marriage?

I KNOW YOU CAN DO BETTER.

I don't want to be too harsh but I DO want you to believe in your own power.

*Don't have sex with him again.
*Get STD tested.
*Don't worry about him having another baby, seeing her through cancer, whatever. Not your monkey, not your circus.
*Get a lawyer and put that person TO WORK. Protect yourself and your kids. If he does have another kid you want to make sure you've protected everything that needs protecting from him.

DO NOT PUT UP WITH THIS ANOTHER MINUTE. There is nothing to work with here. You can do better. You deserve better. Your kids deserve better.

(((((((AHW)))))))