WAH with one foot out the door and one in.

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Yes, have 4th meeting with coach today. Going to ask some clarifying Qs as her advice seems to be contradictory to the advice I am getting through Forum.

Yes, trying to let go of timeline, signs of progress would help me keep going. I guess I need to let go of that now too. Still have issue with just wanting it fixed.

Today is my birthday, so interested to see what if anything H does. I have no expectations/plan on him not doing anything other than saying happy birthday. I have plans to hang out with a bunch of girlfriends tonight, so that is good.

Question...I have made it clear to H that I don't plan on any affairs/new relationships unless we get to the place of divorce. Was this the wrong thing to say? I feel it takes a little of the mystery out of who I am with and what I am doing. But that is what I committed to when I married H.