Lol I don't know why I wrote Monday, it is definitely Tuesday here too, 8.45 pm. God such a busy day my end.
Yip I hate that desire to make contact, but I always regretted it after. It makes them so defensive, it feels like control to them, and you trying to make him feel things he doesn't want to. He will only resent you. Let him be in his man cave. He needs this time.
There is no rush, that is your mind trying to solve a problem, that it has no hope of solving, breathe dear friend breathe