hey Bob,

i know how you feel. it is unbelievable how they become a different person. I have had quite a few off those texts, emails. I was in hospital for eye surgery which had become urgent, AND lost my hearing shortly after BD, stress "related". W knew fully. No text, call, zero. In fact. I stumbled oh unprotected FB postings of W and OM cuddling. W, OM, and my kids on picnics etc - captioned with "Fun with my family".

I linked to it from my FB. Then she called. Abused the c**p out of me, still no mention of surgery etc. Ironically hospital had it recorded that she was my next of kin to contact in case of emergency. I had to change this frown

My latest backslide started with .... see my thread. Point is it has to stop Bob. You know it. That's what you'd tell me right?


M: 6 T: 12
Kids: 2,4
BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015
EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015