MCS! Yes, I've trolled your threads. I for whatever reason just haven't found a good point to jump in. But yes, I understand that things are always hardest in your head. I mean, millions of men find partners. If all of them can do it, I don't know why I couldn't!
Py and Gan...I've posted enough on your threads to make the DB forum's server start to lag so I'll keep it short. Thanks for the replies. You've got me. I'll order Shnarch on my next amazon bender. I'm sure with a name like that he has learned a lot about how to self validate
Jelly...Jelly...What great energy. Thanks for the pep talk. Sometimes I feel so old fashioned. But you're right, there are people out there that are a good fit. I've been a little dismissive of the good fit thing before, I felt people spend way too much time trying to find the right partner, and not enough time appreciating the flawed partner they have. But I'm starting to learn that by finding a partner that is at least a fit on SOME level can take very real pressure off down the road.
Overall I think I'm doing ok, and I'm pumped about where I'll be in 6 months, and 12 months. I plan on knocking out those goals. I know that I've come a long ways in the last year. If that repeats itself I might feel like austin powers...:)
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
