Tulo, I'm beating this one post I wrote to death, but please check out the post I made on Bob's thread a day or two ago. It talked a bit about what it took to detach, and what it took before a M could be saved. Let me know when you've read it and how you think it applies. I'll add more comments later. Thanks, and please know you're being carried by DB good will.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15