Yup, it stands for Rising Above It - I

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RAI, no words of wisdom, just my support. I too made the mistake of stating what I thought was a boundary (no communicating with OP while me or the girls are home, no way I can enforce it because there is not way to prove who he is texting) but he knows how I feel.

I'm sure most would advise against it but you could let her know that until the D is final or you are no longer living together you don't want your kids around OM as it is inappropriate. It probably wont change anything especially if they have already been around him, however, for me sometimes I just like to have my voice heard....well, probably not heard, but at least get my feelings out.