We alll want to feel wanted in one way or another in all parts of our life.

I remember a few years back having a discussion with my H. I was explaining to him how much I want him but did not need him. He was visibly upset by this. he me saying he needed me to need him emotionally. I was trying to explain that this was so much better than needing him but now I can understand how he felt as I now want him to need me.

A few months later he gave me the ILYB..... Wished I read the signs then.


Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18
EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13
Move to work abroad Sept 14
re establish contact with OW while away
D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15