"In my opinion, I would have to say staying with me would be best for the cats. "

How so? It sounds like the two of you are equal based on what you just described.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER