I hucked a waterfall.

[mahhhty]

Thanks for the post Bob. I thought that was spot on and insightful. That is the person I must be and have to be for my kids. A little sidebar (but somewhat related)... Today X picked up the kids from daycare, and I called to say goodnight. My S2 immediately started saying "going to Daddy's house, going to Daddy's house... Yeah." For whatever reasons he thought he was coming over and was very excited, and I dropped him off at daycare this AM. That made me really happy. I was not happy that he was saying it with his Mom there, I am sure that hurt her feelings, and perhaps had a negative impact on her. But I was very happy that he was saying it after seeing me so recently. Its all about them, and yes we will get through this.

Thanks Lost - I think you are getting to know me to well. "Does it have to be handled? How is this affecting you? Why are you so adamant that she remove her stuff? Can you move them to the garage or a spare room? Just questions..."

I can work around all issues, and mitigate them. Perhaps it bothers me b/c I don't understand why.

Here are the things I left in her court...
Coffee Meeting to discuss co-parenting items and give her the tax check. There has been no mention since she has been back from travel. Its been two weeks.
House Stuff Bureau, treadmill, decorations, paintings, random items, and the Washer and Dryer. All of which I agreed to in November. Her Mom is doing her Clothes. Seriously.

Why would she choose not to deal with these things after being so adamant about getting a D?