From what she's told me she's working two jobs, gets up early and comes home late.

From what I know she spends just about every weekend with the OC away from her apartment.

She used to just dump litter into the litter boxes and then just throw it all away after 2-3 months without ever scooping it.

To me that means she'll hardly be spending time with or taking care of the cats.

She would however probably give more of what little time she does spend with them actively petting them for hours.

I give them some TLC but I don't chase them down and dote on them.

In my opinion, I would have to say staying with me would be best for the cats.

BTW: I still haven't responded to her texts yet.
I figure it can wait a bit longer until I can calmly respond.


Me:33 W:34
T:13 M:8.5
D mentioned & S 2/13/15
"We can never get back together" 4/2/15
Visited & Mentioned she hasn't filed 4/20/15
"I want to have cats back" 5/4/15
Served D papers 5/8/15