Rd Moving on 6

[mahhhty]

I've been thinking a lot anout a future R and I don't think I'm cut out for one My life will be full with kids and I have a business to run

RD - You receive praise on a weekly if not daily basis for grace under pressure, for compassion, nurturing, etc. You know what kind of person you are, and others do as well. Your quote above sounds like surrender. Like oh boy, I guess not only can I not save my marriage but I can NEVER have another relationship either. Both of which are fallacies.

I believe you can have anything in this world that you want. All you have to do is figure out what you want. Perhaps you don't want another relationship, perhaps you don't want your W. I think you should try to figure out what you do really want and do that.

If you still have some hope, and you are still willing... look at your situation with a beginner's mind. What aren't you doing that you could be doing, what can you be doing better? Do what works!