My W removed her cell phone from our joint plan but for some reason, I still have access to her phone records. I decided to check W's phone records to get some intel on level of contact with OM. What I found was that following the exposure of the A to OM's W, there is next to no phone calls between W and OM. Then there are a few outgoing calls to OM near the end of April. Then what I see near the end of April are outgoing calls every other day or so from a doctor's office located where I know OM works. So this is either OM going underground a bit or a new OM. My money is on the OM just trying to hide his calls to my W from his W.
There is no way to track the text messaging however as they both have iMessage.
Moral of the story is that there is still contact with OM. Obviously, this [censored]. However, it also indicates that my W is still in an A induced fog and I just need to stay on my present course. The exposure of the A certainly impacted it.
Obviously, OM is trying to hide A from his W. It is pretty disgusting that my W is willing to destroy our MR and family over an OM that isn't willing to even stand up to his own W.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
