On another note, My S13 Bar-Mitzvah is in a few days. I am worried it is going to be quite awkward. There are going to be individuals from my side of the family who know about Ws A, and individuals from Ws side who know about her A. Then there are going to be those who are entirely oblivious to the whole thing. They are all going to converge onto my home. My BIL is a L and has been counselling W. How am I even going to look at him.
I have no idea what is going to happen. I hope it does not get hostile. I am also not sure what precautions to take, if any. I am feeling pretty nervous about the whole thing.
