Was catching up on your last few days Bob and this caught my eye. I have had such a hard time with this too. I finally printed out "The Lighthouse" thread and will read it to them. Although I do not think my H is in an affair, I think the thoughts work for any of our spouses.
Hang in there! I'm praying that you continue to find out how special and unique you are!
{{{Bob}}}
Hello Eirinn,
Thanks for taking the time to catch up on my sitch and post. You are so kind.
I read "The Lighthouse" thread quite awhile ago. I think I'll read it again to refresh my memory. Thank you for bringing it up.
First Mahhhty and now you. LOL! I am at work and my eyes are tearing up a bit with that very kind thought at the end. You, too, are very special and unique.
The hug felt good! Back at you.
{{{Eirinn}}}
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15