I meant between WORK and family,he doesn't have time for anything else.
Oh dear then I should I hide my DR book.
Winhamn, I've reduced my expectations so much the past 6 weeks. H agrees that I have improved a lot but thinks that the past 6 weeks "isn't us" and that we'll fall back to our cycle of fighting etc. When he dropped the bomb, he says we're better off as friends and that nothing he does and did the past 13 years ever made me happy. The truth is, he is a wonderful H...despite his tight work schedule he spends what ever time he has to help me out with chores at home and with kids. he said he gave up what ever social life and hobbies he had for us but I'm still wanting more. That what he does/did is never enough for me. He also says that it's a bit too late to fix the marriage and that D is the best option. I on the other hand, will not quit until we R.
