Calm down. You know this isn't her intention. It's your interpretation of this. While it's hard not to take it as a personal attack, you have to understand that it really isn't about you.
You've really just summed up a slew of my emotional problems all at once.
Me: 35 Her (WAW): 34 D8, S5, D2 T:16, M:9 BD + D: 4/3/2015 EA Confirmed 5/6/2015 Separation under the same roof