Re: the division of assets, etc.
You will survive it. Many of us on these forums already have. Yes, you could sit around waiting for the spark to return. But one of the few instances that MWD says you might go ahead and D is substance abuse and physical abuse.
The choice is yours, of course.


M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!