Hi Raliced. It sounds like you guys had a good weekend, and it's good that you are feeling the way you are. Your timescale is similar to mine, and it is only recently that I have truly begun to believe I can happily move on alone. I would still prefer to save our marriage if that were possible though.

For me, our family life ended at BD, and I have a completely different existence now. It is hard to imagine going out for bike rides and playing games as we did - feels like a different life now. I can see how it would feel difficult to have your H there at the house, given he has been virtually incommunicado.

I'm so pleased you're doing so well though. You are one of the people on the forum that I particularly admire. Take care xx

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus