I've been reading the forums silently for the past 6 weeks looking for support and tips on how to save my M. H dropped the bomb on 3/15 but he keeps saying until today that he loves me, he's still attracted to me but he doesn't see that we have a future together. We've been married for 13 years, S13, D 12 and S4. He agreed to go for counselling so that we could be better parents after the D. I've been reading DR after I stumbled upon this website and have been trying the steps in the book but I've slid a few times. It's so hard not to talk about R especially when I think about the kids. been asking him to reconsider for kids sake but he's still adamant to proceed with D. D will be final on May 21st which is just a few weeks away. I've been trying to GAL but there are days that I just cannot move on. we spoke about R two nights ago..i know I shouldn't have but I did!!! H got really upset and started yelling at me saying that there is no way he would ever consider R. we're still living in the same house but he's now sleeping in another room for the past 6 weeks. Otherwise, I'm still doing the usual stuff st home, laundry, cooking etc. I have made a lot of changes on my part...used to get angry all the time. He says he has noticed my changes but he doesn't think it'll last. it's so frustrating. I need help....I'm running out of time.
