I keep re reading sandi's posts and while they are indeed "gold" and I don't think they really apply after the spouse leaves and chooses the AP. Is that a correct assumption?
My situation gave me no warning and no choice. It was accept this "open marriage" but then changed to "I should have left you years ago" and than again "this affair has nothing to do with my leaving" or I'm outta here. So here I am.
S9 is sick today - so I brought to office to chill out and the other kid D6 thought it was incredibly unfair that she had to go to scool and I had a hard time getting D6 into the class. I told the teacher what the problem was and hopefully all will be well.
