How am I dealing with my feelings now? Me and pretty much EVERYONE thinks she is a complete idiot to divorce me. I'm so beyond catering her in any way. I'm mad. I want to forgive her, and I will. But what a fool she is. There's no deep communication between me and her. Do you guys think it would be ok to have some sort of a talk with her?
And without even waiting for any reply or advice, you plunge ahead and have this convo something like what, ONE HOUR later? (your post recounting the whole convo was two hours later, so I'm estimating).
Still leading with your emotions, Complex. In almost every area. How's that working for you?