W did end up calling last night from work. W stated that she knew the kids were asleep but she wanted to see how they were doing. I responded with joy when I described our afternoon together. I then asked W how work was going and we talked briefly about her night. We ended call and W said, "Call me if you need anything."

Also, I emailed W all the copies of our investment statements that she had been asking for so she could fill out the financial affidavit. She replied, "Wow. Thank you so much."

This morning, W texted me a video of D4 from 3 years ago.

I guess the question I have now is if this approach is succeeding in making meaningful connections with W OR securely placing me in the friend zone, making decision to D me that much easier?

I know W has an appointment with her L today at 2. We'll see what comes of that.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15