oh - and i called DB coach. still deciding. bad afternoon.
school visited in proposed relocation area - problematic. in fact proposed area problematic. this is the "agreed" upon compromise. SO - best case scenario looks like I am going to cave and live 1.5-2 hours from my work, family etc. on "wrong" side of town. to have 50/50 custody of kids avoiding court because W won't compromise on location and I am pretty confident that in the absence of any good reason, court will award custody to W.
2nd. House was a mess as usual when I came in for my tag-team week. Girls living in family home and we go in and out. My W will leave the house without having ever cleaned the floors.
3rd. last but not least. d4 was telling me about the different R's in our family. grandparents etc. Then she said Mummy spends a lot of time w OM. blah blah. One day i saw them and he was biting Mummy all over her body. Lovely bedtime stories!
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015