Hi Heather - I don't know - I just think he is playing around and seeing how much I will allow him to get away with.
Incidentally I read what you wrote about the anger dreams - I have had them when I woke up shaking with rage - and a few weeks later I realised just how much debris the release of the anger had cleared away. I am a great believer in dreams processing stuff from the subconscious in a safe way.
It is huge when we acknowledge our real anger and it paves the way for letting it go, finally.