Slow and steady will win the race. Don't jump at the first thing that comes along. If it is worth while it will be there long enough for you to consider everything before deciding.
A year ago my ex tried to commit suicide. I had to deal with young daughters, lawyers, job issues, etc. Seemed like every time I looked something new was hitting me square in the face. I felt like I had no chance. Life seemed impossible. All I could do was move one foot in front of the other and keep moving forward. I took it one day at a time. Took care of the things I could and tried not to sweat the ones I couldn't. I worked on thinking positively and not looking for the negative. I went almost a year without work while I concentrated on fixing what I could in my life. Looking back now I can see how doing the right things and being positive has put me in a place now that is much better than it was a year ago.
You are doing great. Keep on top of your finances religiously and they will fall into place. Keep positive thoughts and do the right things. Life has a way of rewarding those who do right. It will get easier.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"