Tulo, take all this advice, especially what Zues has written. I wish I had this at my fingertips in the first few days of H being 'not sure', instead I pushed him into 'I want a Divorce' by doing everything I shouldn't.
Even right down to telling H 'I love you, therefore I will let you go and give you the Divorce'
I wish that I had known that this would send H running in the opposite direction with it's controlling and manipulative message. I thought I was telling him, because I love you so much, this is what I am doing for you :-(
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15
