Hold the faith guys... Most of us are looking for men who can lead us and our families and who know how to create intimacy. The work you have done here, stands you in good sted, I came to dating and relationships late in life, but in a short time I kissed a lot of frogs looking for the man who was right for me.
From my experience of the dating world you both will be just fine. There is so much more learning you have to do about yourselves and you will learn it. The first time you reject someone when you know they have feelings for you, that will be an eye opener!
I dealt alot with men who were constantly confused about their what they wanted. If you know that you are a relationship guy and not mr mr I'll see what's out there and I might have some causal relationship and see if anything comes of it.... There are women out there looking for you. Women want mr relationship guy! If they don't you will know!
You have to remember there are women out there who have been where you have, sorting through worries of am I good enough, sexy enough, generally am I Enough! They are looking for what you have to offer if it kind honest open and you make her feel like a prize! She may well want to date you and maybe more. But you know she may not!
Btw Zues, a man is good looking and good in bed, when a girl knows that he gets her and he loves her and thinks she is a prize!
And if you look into research about attraction you will find this to be the case. Women find their men more good looking physically the better they are treated and more secure in the relationship they are. As for good sex, well that is relative to the two people involved!
