if it's too late why is he still here?

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It is odd.

As BIL and SIL were leaving and we had determined that H left BIL made a comment about it being H's MO. SIL says he'll stop by their shop she'll have to go to the back to do something and tell him she'll be right back and comes back and he is gone. Years ago there were times when we would have people over and he would disappear...he'd be in bed.

I guess you're right, indirectly I did ask him and I don't know where he went. Most like just went to a bar and had some beers. D13 did ask and he just said he went out. I've said the same to her when she's asked me where I was.

It's not so weird that he would go out, just weird that he was out late and it seems like he was planning it. I had asked if I could take his jeep and he said no because he needed gas, I said I could put gas in and he hem hawed a little bit but said the sides were all on so I didn't take it.

And him not answering his phone isn't that unusual, but saying he left it in the jeep...unlikely.

He could have met up with a woman but he didn't smell like another woman and didn't dress up special....who knows.