Surrendering this battle to win the war.

[Pyrite]

Me again. OK so i feel childish here. What answer will i be happy with -

1. YES Py, you are right it is hopeless, give up....
2. NO Py, there is always hope .....

I think it is both maybe.

2. is obviously true. there is a point where it becomes stupid (extreme e.g. - she dies).

1. is where I am. I am/have giving/given up. The "..." at the end of the sentence could and should be that I still have to do all the same things anyway. I can't consolidate being hopeful and doing these things PURELY for myself