To Pursue or Not #2

[Arcola]

Toots,
I'm finding it difficult to distinguish the feelings between a gift I want to get her and helping the kids with a gift. I think the necklace which is about the kids might be taken as "Oh he's trying to impress me.", but I also take the same with me helping the kids make her a gift. The reason I feel this way about the kids gift is because in the past she's always been the one to get involved with them in crafts and I'd be on sideline maybe helping some. If by what you mean from the kids, me going in the store, asking them what they want, and bringing it home and see what happens...yeah I can do that.

About three months ago and X amount days I thought it was Mother's Day. Once I realized it wasn't I made myself a note at work of the correct date. That being said, I knew the date was near, but I also wasn't thinking of the WoWing her gift.

I know my marriage is dead and may or may not turn into something better. I say that because the gift is personalized, cost $140 (no refund) and if not given on Mother's Day I don't see how it would be appropriate any other day down the road.