1. Pray. Be appreciative for what I have every day. 2. Be an awesome dad (I told you they were too vague). 3. Kick ass at work. 4. Exercise 3+ times weekly. I'm about 20 pounds off. 5. Get organized. My STBX handled the finances and kept the place up. I haven't developed the best habits yet, and I still have stuff in my room to unpack/store from 12/1. Once I got the kids room and living room set I lost my momentum. I want to turn this place into a man lair, and while I am in no danger of another woman seeing the inside of my bedroom, I'd like it to represent me well (the way you might wear nice underwear even when you don't intend to show them off). 6. Stay on top of my pool game so I don't backslide from what I worked so hard for. 7. KEEP GROWING.
Hey Z!
I feel you set some incredible goals. Good for you. I have seen posts from you on probably any thread I've posted on or had a few minutes to review. You are on a posting binge, you're right. If I may be so bold as to speak for all -- "we really appreciate your time, encouragement and wisdom."
I really liked BW05's commments. I also have a book to recommend about building self-esteem. The title is "You Can Heal Your Life" by Louise Hay.
Hang tough Z.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
