You're at that point in the process where your fear is now changing to anger and resentment. If you're not careful it will change to unforgiveness and then you'll move on to someone else. Problem is that because you didn't spend the effort to learn and understand how your actions affected your W, you'll end up repeating the same behaviors with someone else.
Hello MMn,
MrBond packed a lot of wisdom in the 3 sentences above. Don't feel bad, I went thru this myself and I know others have, too.
No matter how difficult, take life one day at a time. Make decisions one by one. Overcome obstacles separately. Start with matters you can do something about. Patiently work out how to deal with situations or problems that seem overwhelming. Take time to seek wise counsel. And keep working on making yourself a person only a fool would leave.
Good luck and hang in there.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
