Toots: Thanks! I agree I hurt her and controlled her enough in the past. I feel I owe it to her to let her figure this out and make the decision. I am still focusing on me but yes I still want the M to work. Let this be a lesson for me for this M or a future one this pain I'm feeling with the OM is horrible and no fun at all. One of the many tough lessons I'm learning.
SITCH Years of infidelity by me/H, working on perm change, DEC 2014 ILYBNILWY JAN 2105 OM JAN 2015 W says I plan to move out and file for D April 1, 2015 Dbing April 2015 H-39, W-37, M 18yrs, S-9
