MLC Divorce and Cancer

[pbetra]

vge, just seeing how you are.

I continue to hope & pray for you. Pls avoid the stress you do have control over (eg. FB, any other).

I am really in 'awe' when I read of the indifference that mlc-ers exhibit. He will get what he *'deserves' eventually - he would. I'm not wishing that of course (my mother taught me well > he who laughs 1st, laughs last! - so I know not to think that way. life is very, very strange that way).

[*I have no other vocabulary/ or grammatical structure to express what I want at the moment! It's not happening lol - tired I guess].

Anyway, the point is I am not being callous re your h. It's just that, that's something they don't think of themselves! Their 'relationship' is not authentic - it will unfold in ways that they cannot anticipate right now. He & 'Ms. Doe's' R is an illusion right now - & illusions are just that.

Your challenge is to source methods to insulate yourself from his toxic nature right now. To find solutions for your unique sitch to make it WORK FOR YOU. And b/c of that I will have you in my thoughts. You can do this - surround yourself with good people vge. Your family & support ... prepare what you have to.

I hope that many years from now, we would all still be communicating and in a much better place emotionally, & talking about the 'not so good old days & how we tried so hard ... & made it!