WAH with one foot out the door and one in.

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I have been trying to avoid those negative thoughts and live in place of love because anger and resentment are a big part of why our marriage crumbled.

You might want to check out Labug's threads. Hers were an inspiration to me when I started this journey - precisely because she set the goal early on of not ending up bitter and angry over all of this. She reconciled with her H after a couple of years even though things looked very dire.