Hello: I went to a celebrate recovery church group Friday night. I was siting among people with life long addictions, bad habits, and behaviors that destroyed their lives and some of their families lives. Many were addicted to drugs and alcohol and a few like me struggled with porn and infidelity. I plan to go weekly for all 8 weeks to try to learn even more about how I can break the cycle. Personal therapy was tough on Friday too. My therapist knows my story and my families story and is now suggesting I file for D as he believes my W is long disconnected from our M. I told him I would not file and he said it may become an issue where it becomes more destructive to me and to my S-9 than do good. I'm going to be very very patient, loving, respectful to my W and do not feel led to do anything different. I'm focused on me, my S and letting her make the decision about her future. When I am weak he makes me strong!
SITCH Years of infidelity by me/H, working on perm change, DEC 2014 ILYBNILWY JAN 2105 OM JAN 2015 W says I plan to move out and file for D April 1, 2015 Dbing April 2015 H-39, W-37, M 18yrs, S-9
