I understand.

Perceptions are so different between WAW and me. I don't know why I think a breakup from a marriage should be any different psychologically than any other breakup. I just feel like it should be, bc of the much greater responsibility a M brings. But maybe I am wrong. For her it's just a breakup. It doesn't even seem like the M ever really meant something bigger for her. I don't know smirk


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15