In respect to your career I was referencing your past posts about your wife not feeling as though you were "driven" or focusing on your career. I believe you admitted she had some credibility in this complaint. I'm not talking about after she said she wanted a divorce.
I'm not saying you had everything handed to you, or wouldn't "need" things. All I am saying is think about what you're asking for.
As far as dating..... Yep your marriage is over. But DANG did that conversation come across as self riotous the way you typed it. (And yes if my I would ask to go to therapy with me to divorce without kids I would be creeped out by that)
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction