I know there are no guarantees but.....

[XFit14]

Thanks Toots I appreciate you messaging me and I actually just read a few of your messages to another guy that she started posting in the last few days.

I know I am supposed to be here for me and I need to be working on myself. Its not that I don't get that. I guess what I am having trouble with is how easy it all seems for her to move on....especially given what we went through together.
Do vows and promises and dreams and goals not mean anything anymore??
Does, "He stood by me through all of this I can't leave him." ever come into a woman's mind? She KNOWs I wasn't going anywhere.
And again....I know what you and some others have said that if I am learning I should remain here but I just feel like....like people read the story and see that I am recently divorced and think....ok well that one is done and move on to the next person that is still on the brink. (I am not trying to be mean....to anyone....just thinking out loud in type)
I am learning things here but.....is it too late.....since the divorce is final